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what to know what rules there are for both slave and Mistress

what to know what the expectations are for both parties

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Femdom slaves

now now … sad boy lets face facts here …. most of you will never find a real Mistress in life to play out  your life … so cyber it is for YOU im afraid ….

actually im laughing hard on the inside AT YOU .. cause i think your all sad humans … but then i like the game so ill shut my mouth and continue on with my gracious words of wisdom for your darling ears……

cyber slaves have more to prove (as there not always seen my there Mistress …

3 THINGS ALL CYBER SLAVES NEED

1. a HEAD that can nod up and down in a yes motion

2. a MOUTH that only opens when spoken to

3. a CAMERA . to prove he is doing tasks and what ever his/her master asks

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so you have a finger fetish hey

god some of you men freak me out … fetishes with strange things … a finger of all things …. someone explian it to me will ya

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Quote of the week

Women who seek to be Equal to men …….Lack ambition

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Booty call etiquette

yes there is one .. strangely enough the the rules are rarely followed and trouble  happens in the end ….

Booty call is

a non emotional connection with another human being

non emotional sex

sure it has feelings it has to there is a sexual tension between the two … but no emotions of love … or a need …

a booty call is just someone you desire to spend a small amount of time with …

so is it no wonder we get confused when the rules are not followed …

. the story goes like this ..

i once met a man a  year after being single .. he had been single too .. he was hot sexy . tall and i wonted to jump his bones so hard the sexual tension was extreme . my attraction to him was huge … we  layed down a few rules and both excepted them … we were both not ready to be in any kind of relationships .. we made the rules and were happy …

he came over a few late nights a week we had amazing sex then he left …

then the phone calls began .. we  would chat half the night almost every night … plus seeing each other a few nights a week for sex … that was fine ..

then he would surprise me from time to time with a day time visit .. he never stayed long .

after about  8 weeks he was coming over for dinner with me and my kids one day a week then go home late that night after a sex session …

we would hug or hold hands secretly when the kids were around  smile and giggle like  teens …

we spent one saturday shopping together .

i began to feel emotions for this guy . i know i wasnt ment too .. but he or we were both acting like this was maybe going to go somewhere …

i took the kids up to his home for dinner …. wed talk about sleep overs and doing things together on weekends ..

it was now 3 months later .. we were talking on the phone late again .. and i just loved the sound of his kind sweet voice i had to tell him i LLLLL L L liked him ….

so i did i told him … i really like you … i like having you around …..

well it didnt go down well .

he kindly reminded me that this was going nowhere .. and we both agreed to only keep this as a booty call … and no commitment at all …

well yes i did agree to that  in the beginning .. but im sorry  we were sharing more than just a booty call and sex .

we were sharing our time and our thoughts and opinions about life together for 3 months … how can i not feel something …..

i have feelings and emotions that i cant just put in a  bottle ….

we ended rather abruptly that night and that was that …

but i was left angry … thinking … but this was not just a booty call …

it wasnt just cold hearted sex

so did he fake the whole experience with me about feeling comfy around me and good … was it just the ploy to keep me in bed with him …. .

he  showed more to me and treated me more than just a cold booty call and now isnt happy about my feelings

who’s fault is it .. his myn or both .. and when did we cross the line of booty call Etiquette … was it the night time phone calls to chat … i think so …

we need to keep things in perspective here …. a booty call is just that sex and fast out the door … there needs to be clear limits that both people are aware off … dont act in anyway  friendship even …. it just doesnt work …

my pride was bruised for a week or 2 and i felt sucked in to a male trap …. but i realised fast …. men do things differently …. i would of prefered if things were done colder so i knew the boundarys …. dont hug me and kiss my forehead when all you really wanna do if fuck me and leave … you dont need to pamper me and make me feel special … because all i want to do is fuck you too …

keep a fuck a fuck

and keep

friendship as friendship

and keep

potential lovers with some feelings involved …

a booty call should be cold hard sex and nothing more .. stick to the rules and no one will get hurt …

please share your thoughts and experiences of this

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